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Good Boundaries
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A six-session video Bible study by Lysa TerKeurst

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Good Boundaries
and Goodbyes

Boundaries aren't just a good idea... 

they're a God idea!

A six-session video Bible study by Lysa TerKeurst

Get lifetime access to the streaming videos with every study guide purchase, plus bonus free resources

Good Boundaries
and Goodbyes

Boundaries aren't just a good idea... 

they're a God idea!

A six-session video Bible study by Lysa TerKeurst
Get lifetime access to the streaming videos with every study guide purchase, plus bonus free resources

Following Jesus Through the Holy Land

A six-session video Bible study by Max Lucado

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How do you trust God when you don't know all of the details?

Have you been there? Have you prayed or cried out - How long, Lord?

How long will my trials last? 

How long until you answer my prayers?

When will this pass? 

When will you reveal your plans for my future?

In The God of the How and When, the first in a four-part video Bible study series companion to the 2022 bestseller The God of the Way, we'll join Kathie Lee Gifford and Rabbi Jason Sobel for a journey into God's Word and the stories of Abraham, Sarah, Moses, Joshua, and Mary - five heroes of the faith who were called to wait on God. 

By studying their stories, we'll learn how to trust that the God of the How and When will fulfill his promises, and how, we, too, can step out in faith and obedience even when the future is uncertain.   

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary? 

You don't have to keep letting other people’s opinions, issues, misplaced desires, and unhealthy agendas run your life. This is the beauty of good boundaries and goodbyes. 

Whatever your previous experiences with boundaries have been, whether super beneficial or painfully disappointing, this study will show you how boundaries help us love and care for others well while communicating to others how to love and care for us too.

Through personal stories, scriptural insight, and tools from her Christian counselor, join Lysa TerKeurst as she helps you overcome the frustrating cycle of ineffective boundary-setting. In this six week study, you'll learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who you are. 

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5 Reasons Your Boundaries Aren't Working Guide

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To experience Lysa TerKeurst's Good Boundaries and Goodbyes video Bible study, purchase the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes study guide, which includes an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online at StudyGateway.com. Watch on any device - laptop, tablet, phone, or Smart TV!

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About the Study Guide

The ultimate resource for the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Online Bible Study! Join Lysa TerKeurst for a six-session video Bible study and discover that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea! The study guide builds upon and further unpacks the scriptural concepts in the companion book, and includes weekly individual Bible Studies, group discussion questions, video notes, and a leader’s guide. You’ll also receive an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online (you don't need to buy a DVD!).  

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About the Study Guide

The ultimate resource for the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Online Bible Study! Join Lysa TerKeurst for a six-session video Bible study and discover that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea! The study guide builds upon and further unpacks the scriptural concepts in the companion book, and includes weekly individual Bible Studies, group discussion questions, video notes, and a leader’s guide. You’ll also receive an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online (you don't need to buy a DVD!).  

About the Book

The companion book to the study guide. Join Lysa TerKeurst as she helps you stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing you biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who you are. For the fullest study experience, the book and study guide are helpful companion resources and build on each other. 

About the Devotional

In her newest devotional, Lysa TerKeurst helps you stay connected to God and continue loving others even in the middle of discouraging, disappointing, or even devastating circumstances. Experience 50 days of morning and evening devotions complimented with beautiful color photography of significant locations where Lysa has worked through her own healing. Each devotion contains a Bible verse to start your day, a statement of truth to remember throughout your day, space to write and release something back to God at the end of your day, and a prayer to receive before you go to sleep to better prepare for tomorrow.  

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About the Study Guide

The ultimate resource for the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Online Bible Study! Join Lysa TerKeurst for a six-session video Bible study and discover that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea! The study guide builds upon and further unpacks the scriptural concepts in the companion book, and includes weekly individual Bible Studies, group discussion questions, video notes, and a leader’s guide. You’ll also receive an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online (you don't need to buy a DVD!).  

About the Book

The companion book to the study guide. Join Lysa TerKeurst as she helps you stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing you biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who you are. For the fullest study experience, the book and study guide are helpful companion resources and build on each other. 

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STUDY GUIDE + BOOK + DEVOTIONAL

About the Study Guide

The ultimate resource for the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Online Bible Study! Join Lysa TerKeurst for a six-session video Bible study and discover that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea! The study guide builds upon and further unpacks the scriptural concepts in the companion book, and includes weekly individual Bible Studies, group discussion questions, video notes, and a leader’s guide. You’ll also receive an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online (you don't need to buy a DVD!).  

About the Book

The companion book to the study guide. Join Lysa TerKeurst as she helps you stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing you biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who you are. For the fullest study experience, the book and study guide are helpful companion resources and build on each other. 

About the Devotional

In her newest devotional, Lysa TerKeurst helps you stay connected to God and continue loving others even in the middle of discouraging, disappointing, or even devastating circumstances. Experience 50 days of morning and evening devotions complimented with beautiful color photography of significant locations where Lysa has worked through her own healing. Each devotion contains a Bible verse to start your day, a statement of truth to remember throughout your day, space to write and release something back to God at the end of your day, and a prayer to receive before you go to sleep to better prepare for tomorrow.  

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STUDY GUIDE + BOOK

About the Study Guide

The ultimate resource for the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Online Bible Study! Join Lysa TerKeurst for a six-session video Bible study and discover that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea! The study guide builds upon and further unpacks the scriptural concepts in the companion book, and includes weekly individual Bible Studies, group discussion questions, video notes, and a leader’s guide. You’ll also receive an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online (you don't need to buy a DVD!).  

About the Book

The companion book to the study guide. Join Lysa TerKeurst as she helps you stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing you biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who you are. For the fullest study experience, the book and study guide are helpful companion resources and build on each other. 

Study Guide Only

About the Study Guide

The ultimate resource for the Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Online Bible Study! Join Lysa TerKeurst for a six-session video Bible study and discover that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea! The study guide builds upon and further unpacks the scriptural concepts in the companion book, and includes weekly individual Bible Studies, group discussion questions, video notes, and a leader’s guide. You’ll also receive an individual access code to stream all six video sessions online (you don't need to buy a DVD!).  

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What are we studying?

Over the course of six weeks, we'll look at what the Bible has to say about boundaries, and gain a fuller understanding of how God has created this world and every person in it to experience the wholeness that comes from beautiful God-planned boundaries.

Session 1: Boundaries Aren’t Just a Good Idea, They’re a God Idea

Session 2: A Relationship Can Only Be as Healthy as the People in It

Session 3: Maybe We’ve Been Looking at Walls All Wrong 

Session 4: Old Patterns, New Practices

Session 5: People in the Bible Who Had to Say Hard Goodbyes

Session 6: You’re Going to Make It 

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A note from Lysa

Friend, 

Is it Christian to draw a boundary? What does the Bible say to do when a relationship is no longer safe or sustainable?

    If you’ve ever had these same questions, you’re not alone

    What I’ve discovered through years of theological and therapeutic research is that boundaries aren’t just a good idea. They are a God idea. God established the entire universe using boundaries to separate light from darkness, the sea from the dry land, the earth from the heavens. Where there was no form, God created visible distinction to help us see clearly between chaos and order. 

    The purpose of this study on boundaries isn’t so we know how to shove love away. Quite the opposite. 

    This is so we can know what to do when we very much want to love those around us really well without losing ourselves in the process. And it’s so that we can preserve the love within us even when some relationships become unsustainable, and we must accept the reality of a goodbye.

    After all, God’s ultimate assignment is for us to love Him and love others. And this is exactly what Jesus taught and modeled. 

    I'm so glad you are taking this brave step toward healthy community with me. 

    - Lysa

    What readers are saying about
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    "This study reminds me of why GOD gives us boundaries…thank you, Lysa, for the timely lesson!" 

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    "Lysa has touched every area of boundaries that I needed. So thankful for her honesty, transparency and genuine heart in sharing her experiences and wisdom on this very important topic."

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    "In all the counseling I have received regarding maintaining healthy relationships, this has been the missing link!"

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    Meet Lysa TerKeurst

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    Lysa TerKeurst is president and chief visionary officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of six New York Times bestsellers, including Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, Forgiving What You Can’t Forget, and It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way. She writes from her family’s farm table and lives in North Carolina. Connect with her at www.LysaTerKeurst.com or on social media @LysaTerKeurst.

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